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14 April 2023
Emily Graham

Sex Toys for Couples From Beginner to Expert

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Curious about sex toys for couples? Many of us know that using sex toys can be an incredible experience when used solo. Finding the perfect sex toy that satisfies your specific desires can help increase pleasure and expand your sexual horizons.

Sharing this experience with your partner/s can be wonderful too, but sometimes it can be challenging to find a toy which will appeal to everyone. To help you discover which toy might be for you, we’ve curated a range of popular products, ranging from the tame to the extreme.

Whether you’re looking for your first couples sex toy, or you want to level up your existing items, we’ve got something to pique your interest below…

Why use sex toys for couples in the bedroom?

Sex toys can benefit your relationship in so many ways, the key to a happy sex life is enriched with variety, excitement and communication; sex toys for couples help you achieve all of those things.

  • Sex toys add variety and spice to a bedroom routine, and can help people achieve more intense orgasms more frequently.
  • Sex toys encourage you to become more open and adventurous in your sex life, helping you and your partner engage in longer, more intense foreplay.
  • Sex toys take the pressure off you and your partner to perform exceptionally between the sheets and can help maintain passion and desire in the long term.

How to find the right toy for you and your partner/s

There is a vast selection of products in the sex toy market with toys that vibrate, toys that thrust, toys that tingle, and many more. So, finding the ideal sex toy for your relationship can be a tricky task for beginners.

The most important step is discussing with your partner what toys turn you on and what toys turn you off. Sit down with your partner and research online about what toys you might be interested in. Or, come into one of our many stores across the UK where you can see, feel and touch the toys for yourself.

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Beginner Sex Toys for Couples

1. Harmony Suction Toy & Cock Ring £79.95

A set of two toys ideal for partners to play with each other in the bedroom, the Harmony Suction Toy and Cock Ring set includes two toys for clitoral and penis stimulation.

The suction toy makes the perfect clitoral stimulator, with a variety of vibration modes to build up the receiver’s sensations before penetration. The cock ring also vibrates, providing stimulation along the shaft and the clit when used during penetration.

Not only this, but the cock ring also helps to prolong and increase the size of an erection, so you can your partner can have fun for longer. Both toys are rechargeable so you won’t need to run for the batteries mid-action.

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2. Buzzing Bunny Sex Bundle £44.95

The ideal Valentine’s day or anniversary gift, the Buzzing Bunny Bundle comes with multiple toys for you and your partner/s to explore what turns you on together.

With a g-spot vibrating rabbit for vaginal stimulation and a Tenga egg for shaft stroking, this set bundle comes with everything you need to explore sex toys, all at a lower price than buying the items individually.

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3.  Love Flutter Duo Vibe £89

Technically a toy best suited for clitoral and vaginal stimulation, this toy comes with remote control, perfect for exploring power play as your partner will get to decide when and where you get off.

Discreet and quiet, this toy can be worn when out and about. Hand over the controls to your partner to allow them to surprise you with tantalising vibrations whenever they choose. With a dual motor design and 12 different modes to choose from, this toy is small but mighty and will certainly leave you ready for the bedroom after being used outside.

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Intermediate Sex Toys for Couples

1. Partner Up – Triple Motor Couple’s Sex Toy £44.95

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Sharing a toy at the same time can be incredibly arousing. Feeling your partner’s body twitch and move against you whilst you feel the same vibrations connect you both in the moment.

Potentially confusing to use at first, this sex toy for couples works by placing the motors over the clitoris whilst the wear is penetrated. Kind of like a female cock ring. This spreads out the vibrations across the entire clitoris and provides 3 different points of stimulation to get you and your partner going.

Made from sensually smooth silicone and best paired with lots of lube, this toy will glide across every nerve of you and your partner’s intimate areas, sending you straight to an amazing orgasm.

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2. Double Ended Snaky Vibe £64.95

Another oddly shaped couple’s toy with a huge amount of potential, the Snaky Vibe requires some finesse to master. But once you do, you won’t go back.

With two separate ends which vibrate, this toy works best by each partner using one end each, either on themselves or each other. The long cord allows each user to move their end for the best stimulation for them, making it heaven for couples who like to switch it up without having to swap out toys.

Make sure that you assign an end to each partner to prevent passing on any bacteria, even if you wash the toy thoroughly.

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3. Easy Strap-On 7 Inch Dildo Set £54.95

Easy Strap-on Dildo Set 7.5 Inch

Although pegging or using a strap-on might seem intimidating, they can play an incredible role in the bedroom. With a comfortable harness and modest-sized dildo, this set is the ideal first-timer’s strap-on when paired with plenty of lube.

Not only does the harness come with easy-to-adjust straps, but you can also swap out the dildo with a smaller or larger size. So, once you’re comfortable with using a strap-on in the bedroom, you can explore larger sizes, different shapes, and even vibrating dildos to enhance your experience.

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Expert Sex Toys for Couples

 

1. ElectraStim Viper Cock Ring £54

ElectraStim Viper Cock Ring

Providing all the same benefits as a regular cock ring, such as increased girth and duration of an erection, the Viper Cock Ring adds an extra element.

If you and your partner are craving a step up from your usual vibrations, an ElectraStim product might be for you. Providing a tingling sensation across the shaft and clitoris when in use, the Viper Cock Ring can be used in 2 different places to change up where you feel the sensations most.

Always remember to read all the instructions included with any electrostimulation product to prevent discomfort during use and damaging your toy.

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2. ElectraStim Komodo Dildo £85

ElectraStim Komodo Dildo

Another hotly recommended electrostimulation couple’s toy is the Komodo Dildo, perfect for penetrative stimulation with the added tingling sensations of electrostim.

Suitable for either vaginal or anal penetration, but never both to prevent spreading bacteria, this silicone dildo provides electronic tingles across its entire shaft.

For couples who want to explore double penetration, this dildo also comes with suction cups. Attach it to any suitable flat surface and experience anal stimulation whilst giving oral, or receiving vaginal penetration from your partner for double the fun.

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3. Portable Thrusting Sex Machine £269

 

Potentially saving the best until last in this list, the Portable Thrusting Sex Machine is one of our top-rated luxury toys that many customers ask about when in store.

Large, powerful, and versatile, this compact sex machine delivers strong thrusts and vibrations either anally or vaginally. Ideal for double penetration, the hands-free thrusting design of the sex machine makes it one of our favourite toys of all time.

Although the machine itself may seem large and bulky, it comes encased in a discreet zip-up handbag, with multiple designs to choose from. So, if you’re planning to travel with this toy, you won’t need to worry about stares from strangers.

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Want to explore more of our sex toys for couples? Check out our full range of sex toys for couples here.