Anal Sex Science – Why do we like it & should it hurt?

 

Anal sex used to be seen as the ‘forbidden fruit’ of intercourse, with many individuals holding onto the stigma of anal only being for gay men and the sexually promiscuous.

This, of course, is total rubbish. Anal sex can be enjoyed by everyone, no matter your gender or sexual preferences. Luckily, over the decades the stigma around bum fun has been broken down. More people than ever are enjoying anal sex and experiencing more diverse and exciting sex.

Some people who have never taken part in anal sex may be confused as to why so many people like it. What’s so good about having your bum stuffed and doesn’t it hurt? Well, we’re here to help answer that question.

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Our Easy Guide to Finding your Perfect Prostate Stimulator

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The prostate is one of the most sensitive parts of the male body and can be the most pleasurable when hitting the P-spot. To help men who want to try out anal penetration, we sell a wide range of prostate stimulators to help you on your P-spot journey.

If you haven’t already, we highly recommend reading our Beginner’s Guide to Prostate Stimulation. This guide expands on that one, with suggestions of products for prostate players of all experience levels…

Finding the stimulator right for you…

Follow our guide below to find the best stimulator for your P-spot, we will link all the products at the end of this post.

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International Women’s Day 2022: Sexual Exploration & Taking Charge in the Bedroom

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Join us on an exploration into women’s sexual exploration and how the International Women’s Day message is just as important in the bedroom as it is in other aspects of our lives…

When it started, International Women’s Day focused on the liberation of women and their empowerment within the workplace. Giving women the right to vote and have equal opportunities to their male counterparts were important to the development of the cause and has helped to shape our society as it is today.

‘But what does this have to do with sex?!’ I hear you cry!

Actually, a lot. International Women’s Day is all about female empowerment and celebration in all aspects of life, including sex. It’s important women explore their sexual desires and needs. Communicating these with their partners helps to improve romantic and physical relationships. However, this is easier said than done, so we’ve got some interesting insights and tips to help you take charge in the bedroom.

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What is BDSM? 

WHAT IS BDSM? 

BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism.

Bondage – refers to the act of restraining someone either with bondage rope, tape, restraints anything that tickles your pickle.
Discipline – Discipline refers to controlling behaviour using set rules often delivered by the dominant partner. Discipline can be enforced with rewards and punishment (all consensual of course!).
Sadism – Sadism refers to receiving pleasure from administrating pain. This can be both physical and emotional.
Masochism – Masochism refers to experiencing pleasure from receiving pain, again this could be physical or emotional. Spanking, biting and public humiliation or all types of pain offered in S&M.

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Tips on how to give the best handjobs

Let’s bring some passion back to the old hand-shandy! Whether you’re DIY-ing it or have a friend to help you out, you’re definitely going to want to read our top tips for giving the best hand jobs ever.

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Tips on how to be a good kisser

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First kisses can be incredibly daunting, even if you’ve done it a thousand times, we all get those butterflies when you’re locking eyes with your crush and slowly leaning in to lock lips. Kissing can be an aphrodisiac for the mind and body A good kiss can set off the metaphorical fireworks and be the start of something beautiful, but a bad, sloppy kiss can summon the ‘ick’ and that’s bad news for everyone involved, so it’s important that you’re well equipped with knowledge on what makes a great kiss.

When it comes to kissing, there’s always room for improvement, here are a few tips on how to be a good kisser

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5 things you need to know before trying anal sex

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Whether playing solo or with your partner, the key to enjoying anal sex is being relaxed. For most beginners, this is easier said than done. Up until now, the anus will have been used to one-way traffic, so it is likely to clench up tightly when it suddenly feels something trying to enter rather than exit.

Don’t be discouraged, even longtime anal adventurers will tell you they also experienced a brief acclimatisation period. Training the anus to get used to penetration takes time, but eventually, it will feel as comfortable (or almost as comfortable) with this action as it currently is with releasing digestive waste.

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How to play with balls during sex

how to play with balls during sex

It’s pretty much common knowledge that the crown jewels residing in the southern hemisphere are extremely sensitive. Whether you’ve got a pair or not, we all know that this particular area is off-limits most of the time… but not all of the time *wink wink*

Initiating a few ball games during foreplay is a wonderful way of giving your partner sensational pleasure, but like we previously mentioned the area is very sensitive filled with nerve endings that, with the right touch, can result in some incredible sensations. So you need to be smart and use that to your advantage but don’t sweat, we’re going to explain exactly how to blow your lover’s mind by simply fondling his cajones!

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Why you should listen to music whilst having sex

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Music is an incredibly powerful tool for expressing many emotions. Going through a rough time? Stick some James Blunt on and let it all out. Need to find a little motivation? Lizzo has got you sorted. Fancy getting steamy beneath the sheets and wanna get your partner in the mood? You know Marvin Gaye is going to get you there… Or maybe it’s The Weeknd for you? Perhaps some electronic hard house? whatever your taste, it often has the same effect.

That’s because music has been proven to flood your thinker with dopamine, which is the chemical that makes you feel good the same way as chocolate or sex does or even going to the gym… if you can peel yourself away from binge-watching Motherland that is!

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Sex-Positive A-Z: 26 Sexy Suggestions for 2021

SEXY IDEAS FOR 2021

There’s no doubt about it, lockdown has impacted our sex lives. Since March 2020 it has effectively been against the law to sleep with someone unless they live in the same house, causing a national dry spell for both singletons and those living away from their partner.

Rules around overnight stay at another person’s home set to change at step three of the lockdown roadmap, which will be introduced on or after May 17. With this in mind, we collaborated with Gillian Myhill, a sex expert and founder of BARE Dating, to collate a list of 26 scenarios, sex toys, and positions into a sex-positive A-Z to encourage and inspire people to reignite and explore their sexual desires in 2021, and beyond.

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