The Beginners Guide to Vibrators
Commonly found in many sex toy user’s bedrooms, vibrators are the ideal bedtime companion for both solo and partnered use. With so many different types of vibrators out there, we’ve created this guide to help you understand what they are, and which might be best for you.
What is a Vibrator and how do you choose one?
Vibrators are simply sex toys that vibrate. Like all sex toys, vibrators come in all different shapes, sizes and styles. Although often seen as sex toys for women, men can also get pleasure from the many different types of vibrators on offer.
With so many different vibrators to choose from, here at Pulse and Cocktails we understand that finding the perfect vibrator can appear a daunting task. Doing your homework is essential, so that’s why we have created this user-friendly guide to help you pick your first (or millionth) vibrator with us. You can use this guide to help decide which shape, style, size and even girth will maximise your pleasure senses.
Choosing your perfect vibrator
How to decide what stimulation you need from a Vibrator
Have a little play around with yourself next time you are under the duvets or in the shower and decide what type of stimulation best suits you. Every person is different, some prefer clitoral stimulation, others prefer internal penetration for the G-spot, and others just like a bit of everything. If you’re buying a vibrator for your partner and are unsure, next time you’re in the bedroom ask them a few questions about what sensations feel nice and what they prefer.
How powerful do you want your vibrator?
If you’re unsure of how powerful you want your toy to be, choosing a multi-speed vibrator might be the best option for you. These toys tend to be a tad pricier, but also provide longer-lasting satisfaction due to the ability to change how much stimulation you want at the touch of a button.
Everyone has different levels of sensitivity, some prefer soft gentle strokes while others use powerful pulsations to help them orgasm. Since all toys have their power levels and vibration settings, it can be hard to know what kind you like if you’re a beginner. That’s why we recommend visiting one of our many shops across the UK to test the look and feel of our vibrators on offer, our staff are always on hand to provide help and advice.
The different types of vibrators
The Different Types of Vibrators
Small Clitoral Vibrators – The Bullet Vibrator
Small in size but big in power. A bullet vibrator is a perfect option to use as your first vibrator for clit (external) stimulation only. Due to their small size, they are discrete and easy to store. Although don’t let their little size fool you, rechargeable bullets like our best-selling my toy wireless bullet have some of the most powerful vibrations on the market (if you prefer more power, always opt for a rechargeable bullet vibrator).
We recommend only using them for external stimulation, and they can be used to stimulate all areas across your body. You can start by stroking the bullet across your nipples, then slowly work your way down to the edges of your thighs. Then using some lube, run your powerful bullet across your clitoris and let the vibrations take you to cloud nine.
Bullet vibrator features:
- Small and portable.
- Offer powerful Vibrations (Especially rechargeable bullets).
- Easy to use on your own and during sex.
The G-Spot Vibrator
The classic, full-size G-Spot vibrator is for those ladies that prefer penetration and G-spot stimulation. These multifunctional sex toys can also be used for clitoral stimulation or rubbed around the anus and perineum. If you want to use a vibrator for anal stimulation, we advise a vibrating butt / anal plug vibrator as these toys are specifically designed for anal use. More on anal-specific vibrators later…
If you are aiming for vaginal G-spot stimulation it is important to choose a vibrator with a curved shaft or one that is flexible and bendy for it to hit the spot.
Internal vibrators features:
- Phallic-shaped for internal and G-spot massaging.
- Come in a variety of sizes.
- It can be used both internally and externally.
The Rabbit Vibrator
A top pick for a first vibrator, whether for solo use or coupling up…
Often viewed as the classic sex toy, rabbit vibrators offer both clitoral and internal stimulation, simultaneously creating a more intense all-over orgasm. The shaft of the rabbit vibrator (similar to phallic-shaped vibrators) is designed to be used internally, often offering rotation and thrusting sensations to mimic intercourse and reach that G-spot. The rabbit also features ‘rabbit ears’ which are positioned perfectly to sit on the clit, often pulsating and offering different levels of vibration to take things to the next level.
Rabbit Vibrator features:
- Dual-pleasure offering both internal vaginal stimulation and clit stimulation using ‘bunny ears’.
- G-spot stimulation from rotation and vibration functions in the shaft of the toy.
- Lots of shapes, sizes and colours for the perfect fit.
The Wand Vibrator
First used as a personal massager, ladies quickly realised another use for these little beauties, clitoral stimulation (of course!). Being one of the most powerful toys on the market, the magic wand vibrator offers vibrations that penetrate through your whole body like no other. These magic toys can be used as a body massager or on his balls and anus area too. Try a wireless wand for ease of use during sex with your partner or on the move. Detachable heads can also be fitted on top of your magic wand, turning this toy into the most multi-functional versatile external vibrator out there.
Wand vibrator features:
- All over body massager.
- Extremely powerful vibrations.
- Can be used solo for sensational clit stimulation.
- Couples can use it during penetration and foreplay.
Love Egg Vibrators
The love egg vibrator is a similar shape to traditional kegel balls. Its circular soft shape and edges make them a perfect beginner’s toy. You can use love egg vibrators externally by slowly running them across your nipples, clitoris or other areas of your body as you please. Another excellent quality of love eggs is that some are remotely controlled. Extra naughty! Extra fun! Give him the power and control over how hard he wants to take you either inside the bedroom or out in public.
Love Egg vibrator features:
- External and internal vibrating stimulation.
- Many have remote controls, ideal for couples’ play.
- Small and discrete.
The Anal Vibrator
If you’re into a little bit of anal play or are wanting to experiment with it, then anal vibrators are perfect for you. Anal vibrators come in different shapes and sizes, curved butt plugs are the perfect shape for massaging the prostate. If you are an anal novice we advise starting with a small anal toy such as small anal beads or a small vibrating butt plug. Remember, always use anal lubrication with any anal toy for safety reasons and maximum pleasure!
Anal Vibrator Features:
- Usually larger than a standard bullet vibrator.
- Made with a tapered tip and flared base to ease insertion and removal.
- Never use the same toy for vaginal and anal stimulation due to hygiene reasons.