It’s one of the biggest taboos in a man’s sexual world and we’re going to talk about it today… yep, PROSTATE STIMULATION. Oooooh, so scary right? Whisper these sweet nothings into your fella’s ear they’ll quiver in fear, squirming at simply the thought of letting their loved one in through the back door. *Sigh* Stereotypes and stigmas… am I right?
Well, newsflash! Not only are these stereotypes incredibly wrong, but men all over the world are missing out on the best orgasms and for what? What was the reason?
Why you should try Prostate Stimulation…
Section 1: Why Should I Try?
Simply WHY SHOULDN’T YOU TRY IT? Seriously, it’s the 21st century, and yet we’re still decades behind. Not only does the P-Spot hold the key to the ultimate male orgasm; yes you heard, the ultimate male orgasm, but it also has a number of health benefits. You’ll be surprised at how many men are already trying this out and not just for sexual pleasure either, but for prostate massage, which can be very beneficial, but we’ll go into that a little later.
Section 2: Breaking the Stigma
There has been a lot of stigma around this sore subject (no pun intended). For most men, it’s always been a mind over matter type of thing. The stereotyping and stigma around anal play can be enough to put anyone off, but really what is Stigma but simply the fear of the unknown?
In fact, it’s a perfectly natural act of pleasure and can be extremely satisfying during sex with your partner. Now, we’re not saying you have to start punishing your plum with a great big 17-inch dong or even putting anything that resembles another phallus up there but there are many small and discreet toys out there that have many benefits and features, or even a simple finger will do the trick.. but do remember to trim those talons!
Section 3: Health and Pleasure
Firstly what exactly is the prostate and where do I even find it?
The prostate, otherwise known as the (P-Spot) is a small muscular gland that produces the seminal fluid found in the ejaculate. It helps to propel semen from the penis. It’s also surrounded by lots of nerve endings that feel amazing when stimulated. (Reference 1).
The prostate is hidden about two inches inside the rectum, between the rectum and the penis. The best way to reach this is through that wonderful place called the anus!
Although entering through the anus is the most direct and pleasurable way, you can also stimulate the prostate indirectly through the perineum, or taint. This is the bit of skin that runs underneath the scrotum to the anus. (Reference 1.2)
What does the prostate feel like?
It all depends on whether you want to feel it directly or indirectly. Being aroused makes it swell. Now that sounds like a good excuse to get aroused beforehand! … Like you need an excuse am I right?
From the inside, it feels like a small squishy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the rectal lining. It will feel different to anything else, so you will know when you find it. (Reference 1.3)
So what are the health benefits?
There are many health benefits to prostate stimulation and prostate massage, whether it be a solo exploration mission or with a co-pilot, which by the way is a fantastic way to enhance your overall sexual experience. Here are just a few benefits:
- Clears your prostate duct from excess fluid.
- Help to relieve painful ejaculation.
- Helps symptoms of erectile dysfunction.
- Improve urine flow.
- Can be used to relieve Prostatitis.
So, in a nutshell, it’s just a great way for you to look after your body and to have a great time doing so as well. Now that sounds good to us!
OK, so what is so pleasurable about it?
Right, let’s get talking about that intensifying male orgasm, it’s the closest a man can get to a woman’s Clitoral and G-Spot orgasm. Yes, the pleasure is really that good… getting FOMO yet? (the fear of missing out)
The “male G-spot” is packed with thousands of nerve endings, which means that when you stimulate it, it feels insanely good. In fact, some lucky ones report being able to reach that intensifying orgasm just through prostate stimulation alone. (Reference 3)
It is said that a P-Spot orgasm is to feel similar to the regular penile orgasms, only way more intense and like a thunder of explosions throughout the entire body, now that’s not too bad eh fellas.
Done right you can even experience what’s called a Super Orgasm, which is a stream of fast, continuous orgasms that cause the body to shudder. But don’t be misled, not everybody ejaculates during a prostate orgasm, but some do release a dribble of milky fluid from the urethra.
This doesn’t need to be done solo though, why not try incorporating prostate play within other sexual activities, you haven’t had anything like the orgasm you get when you tickle the P-Spot whilst receiving oral sex from your partner.
Section 4: Preparation and Cleanliness
Now anal play for anyone can be a messy experience, if not prepared properly but this doesn’t have to be a chore and with the right equipment can be very easy.
Don’t be ashamed or embarrassed we all do it, your rectum is always going to have residue, but don’t worry, this can be removed with ease.
The best and most essential “Tool for Stool” is a good old Enema or more commonly known as douching.
A Douche is an instrument that has a narrow pipe attached to a squeezable bulb, this is perfect and simple for flushing out your rectum and making for a clean experience you can be confident with.
Remember that anal douching isn’t always necessary. A good well-balanced diet with plenty of fibre can help keep things moving so you don’t have to worry about that buildup of stool in your colon. (Reference 4)
And don’t forget you should always wrap up and use a condom for that extra peace of mind.
Section 5: The Perfect Starter Kit
You’re probably thinking by now that “actually this doesn’t sound too bad” and “you know what, I’m going to be a modern man and give it a go” well if that’s you then, hell yeah, welcome to pleasure!
But you might be thinking “well what do I use and where do I go?”don’t worry, Pulse & Cocktails have you covered.
We have a wide range of beginner all the way up to advanced anal toys, prostate massagers and prostate ticklers to keep you and your partner busy. Afterall “Couples Who Play Together Stay Together”
All available here on our website with lots for you to browse and many deals you can take advantage of.
We also have extremely knowledgeable staff on hand (When Boris lets us re-open our stores again!!), who can help with any questions you might have with the utmost discretion, so don’t be embarrassed just pop in for a chat, their advice is great!
For us though, if you are wanting something to get you started then here are some fantastic recommendations:
Anal Douche £16.95
On the top of the list is cleanliness, not only will this make you feel more at ease and confident but the cleaner the rectum the more pleasurable you will find it.
Lubricant £6-£11 (depending on size)
Lubricant is definitely a must, especially if you are going to be using a prostate massager as well, as this makes it easier to insert and rub against the prostate. We recommend for your first experience to go for the Waterbased Anal Love Lube as this comes with an added relaxant that will help you ease into your stride.
Beginners Prostate Stimulator £17.95
If you’re new to the game and just starting out we definitely recommend getting started with a simple little prostate stimulator. This one is perfect for beginners, as it’s not too wide or too long and made from smooth body-safe silicone.
Curved Vibrating Butt Plug £29.95
With its unique finger-like shape and small size, our curved vibrating butt plug is perfectly designed to hit the prostate, but also has various vibration speeds and settings that you or your partner can control. This makes a fantastic prostate stimulator for that ultimate male orgasm, made from body-safe silicone.
Prostate Stimulator & G Spot Stroker – £49.95
If you’re wanting something a bit more powerful and with more motion, this you can’t beat. Made with soft body-safe silicone and a high powered rechargeable motor that won’t let you down. The best thing with this apart from its perfect shape for prostate stimulating is that it has a finger-like motion on the top for prostate massage. Perfect for those who are looking for a little more… sensation.
Antibacterial toy cleaner – £7
Last but certainly not least is the Antibacterial toy cleaner, a real must with any sex toy if not more so with Anal toys, after a heavy play session with your favourite bedtime buddies, it’s important that you keep your toys clean. After all, if you look after them they will look after you.
So, what are your thoughts on Prostate Stimulation and its benefits? It is something you’d like to try or even something you’ve been practising for a while? Get in touch, let us know, we’d love to hear about your experiences!
(Ref 1, 1.2, 1.3): How to Have a Prostate Orgasm: 35 Tips for You and Your Partner [online] Available at; https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/prostate-orgasm
(Ref 2): What Are the Benefits of Prostate Massage Therapy? [online] Available at; https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/benefits-of-prostate-massage-therapy
(Ref 3): 6 Reasons Why You Might Want to Try a Prostate Massage [online] Available at; https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19537319/prostate-massage-health-benefits/
(Ref 4): A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Douching [online] Available at; https://www.healthline.com/health/anal-douche#necessity