Choosing the right Male Masturbator

Choosing a male masturbator can seem like a difficult task, but sex toys most definitely aren’t just for women. Whether you enjoy masturbating to an adult movie or just want to see what a realistic vagina masturbator feels like, our Male Masturbator guide will set you on the right path. As the old adage goes “ninety percent of men admit to masturbating while the other ten percent are liars”.

Sometimes you just need to take matters into your own hands (literally) and enjoy a solo session. After all, women have their dildos now guys now have their portable male masturbators and realistic fake vaginas to indulge in. Masturbators have been a total game changer in the art of male pleasure, with some men claiming to have to limit their use because they feel so good. Male strokers can be used by both straight and gay guys, and there’s something to tickle everyone’s fancy whether you prefer vagina, ass or mouth penetration replication.

Who says women have all the fun?

The male masturbator is probably now as ubiquitous in the hotel room as a Corby trouser press! After you have read this article the first thing on your shopping list will be a male masturbator or one of its many derivatives.

What the heck is a male masturbator?

A male masturbator is a sleeve or tube of soft flexible material into which you insert your penis and away you go. Inside the male masturbator is often ribbed lining with bumps and nodules that your penis will gently brush against for stimulation. Combined, these soft ridges create a very realistic feeling of slipping your cock into a vagina, arse or mouth.

To keep the linings’ shape and tightness it is fitted inside a rigid plastic case. This gives the whole unit the appearance of a torch or flashlight (also a cunning way of keeping your sex toy discreetly hidden from prying eyes or accidental discovery). At each end of the plastic case is a screw cap. You remove the top end to reveal the orifice awaiting your eager member, whilst often the screw cap at the opposite, usually narrower end enables loosening or tightening the resistance as you plunge. This also enables easier cleaning of the masturbator when the fun is over.

Cool – so which one?

We know picking a sex toy poses many questions. Which one do I choose? What size? What design?

All these are very common questions when it comes to picking the right male masturbator. After all, it isn’t just a piece of silicone to put your dick in. If chosen right, it can be the perfect travel or bedroom companion. It can add spice to the bedroom for both individual play and couple experimentation.

The trick is choosing the right one to satisfy all your fantasies whether it be a full-sized realistic sex doll or just a specific part of the female anatomy that does it for you. There is everything you can possibly think off to get your release whether you’re working away or are at home in the bedroom.

Our Top Picks

Super Smooth Portable Pussy, £29.95

Lube up and get going, this travel-sized vaginal masturbation sleeve is the perfect travel companion.  Most men using this toy use their imagination to add to the experience (some opt for an adult DVD from our stores too!). This male masturbator is easy to clean and will stand the test of time if correctly looked after. (Read our guide on how to clean your sex toys here). The Super Smooth portable pussy sleeve also comes with a removable vibrating bullet, if you wish, slip the bullet into the bottom of the sleeve to realise intense vibrating sensations on your bulging penis head. Use the remote control to change the intensity of the vibration.






Realistic pussy male masturbator with adjustable tightnessRealistic Pussy with Adjustable Tightness, £59.95

Looking for a tried and tested masturbator? The Realistic Pussy with adjustable tightness is an all-time customer favourite. This is the perfect masturbator if you want to adjust how tight the pussy feels, which can create a tight vice-like grip. This masturbator also features a suction cup base so you can fasten it to a flat surface if you want to go hands-free. The vaginal insert is easily removable so you can easily clean your favourite new adult toy simply and easily.






Pussy and Ass Male MasturbatorDouble Ended Male Masturbator (Pussy and Anus), £39.95

Yes, you can have it all in one masturbator thanks to this double-ended beauty. Nothing is off limits – whether you fancy the feeling of realistic pussy or a tight ass hole, the choice is yours. The inner lining is ribbed for your ultimate pleasure, and this masturbator has two black tops to screw on at either end – perfect for discreet storage.

If you prefer pussy and mouth, see our other double-ended pussy and mouth masturbator here. How will you decide?







Silicone Ribbed Male Masturbator (Grey), £17.95

If you prefer the stroking motion then this little star is the one for you, encasing your penis with ribbed detailing to provide a massaging feel resulting in the ultimate climax. This masturbator features a small hole at the tip to expel excess fluid, and it has a slit down the side for easy entry and exit – it screams simple pleasure.

Easy to clean and hide if needed, if cared for correctly this masturbator offers endless pleasure.






The Hands-Free Pump Action Pleasure Cup

If you’re ready to take your pleasure to another level, then this hands-free piston cup is the top of the masturbator tree. This all singing all dancing device covers all bases with a rechargeable motor, for vibration, thrusting and pulsing stimulation this device will leave you wanting more. The clear silicone skin is soft with protruding bristles which provide added massage and stimulation just when you need it.  The skin is easy to remove for cleaning and once charged the motor will last hours.

The choice is yours, go out and play. Finding out which one is your favourite is half the fun.




How to use a male masturbator?

To get the best pleasure out of your male masturbator, it’s a good idea to apply water-based lubricate to the toy and your penis. The lubricant will limit the amount of friction and heighten your sensitivity, improving the feeling of the toy against your penis.

The rest is up to you. You can use either one or two hands, which ever you find more comfortable. Alternatively, some of our male masturbators come with a suction come so you can secure it and go hands-free. Perfect for couple play. The fun part is experimenting and finding which male masturbator is your favourite, developing a collection to cater for your every mood!

Keep it clean

After you have finished you should clean your new-found friend thoroughly. This will keep it in good condition and ready for your next encounter. Remove the sleeve from the plastic case, turn it inside out and gently rinse with luke-warm water. Then, spray the masturbator with our Love Toys antibacterial toy cleaner and leave for 2-3 minutes to work its magic. Rinse again with lukewarm water and leave out on a towel to air dry completely (this part is really important). To keep the sleeve from becoming tacky to the touch, lightly dust it with corn flour or cornstarch.

There is such a wide variety of male masturbators to choose from. But don’t worry, it’s difficult to be disappointed whatever you pick. There are many colours, sizes, orifices and lining textures available and choosing is all part of the fun. You can have them with vibrators or with a mechanical piston action so you can lie back and enjoy.

After buying one (we promise you won’t regret it!), don’t stop there… as they say, variety is the spice of life. Shop our full range of sex toys for men here.