No. A toy isn't a replacement for you, it's something you use together. The couples who ask us this in store usually come back for a second one. It's about more fun for both of you, not a review of your performance. Read the couples guides ›

Everything ships in plain, secure packaging, and your bank statement shows P&C Trading, nothing else. In store, browsing is private and nobody bats an eyelid. Your order is for you to know and enjoy only. More in the Help Centre ›

Almost never as much as you think. Confidence, communication and knowing what you're doing count for far more, and all three can be learned. The Better in Bed guides cover this ›

Spend on anything that goes in or on your body: body-safe materials, a good lube, a proper toy cleaner. Save on gimmicks and anything bought purely because the box looked exciting. Seeing a toy used properly helps too. Watch Gemma's how-to videos ›

After 25 years of shops and conversations: yes. Whatever it is, we've heard it, stocked it, and sold out of it. Curiosity is normal. Acting on it safely is the only rule that matters. Explore the kink pathway ›