Long Distance Valentine’s Gifts: How an App-Controlled Toy Kept Us Close (Even When We’re 2 Hours Apart)
Hi — Lena here. I’m 21, recently in a relatively new relationship, and yes, we’re one of those couples who met at an event, felt the spark instantly… and then realised we live two hours apart.
Two hours doesn’t sound dramatic, but it’s just far enough that you can’t do spontaneous midweek sleepovers. We don’t see each other every few days. Sometimes it’s every couple of weeks. And as Valentine’s Day crept closer, I realised I didn’t just want to send something cute — I wanted something that made us feel connected.
That’s how I ended up discovering one of my favourite long distance Valentine’s gifts ideas: an app-controlled toy that we could share, even when we weren’t in the same room.
Long Distance Relationships Are Cute… and Also A Bit Frustrating
I love our relationship. The messages, the voice notes, the “I miss you” texts at weird times of day. But let’s be honest: texting isn’t the same as touch. When you’re in a long distance relationship — especially a new one — there’s this mix of excitement and longing. You’re still learning each other, still building trust, and at the same time, you don’t always get the physical closeness that helps everything feel grounded. Wanting sexual connection at a distance doesn’t mean you’re impatient or needy. It just means you’re human.
And for me, Valentine’s felt like the right moment to explore something that kept that side of our connection alive — without pressure, without awkwardness, and without pretending I don’t have a body just because we live two hours apart.
Why I Chose an App-Controlled Toy for Valentine’s
I didn’t buy this as a “couples toy” at first. I actually bought it for me.
I’d been curious about app-controlled sex toys for a while, but always thought they were only for super confident couples or people who were way more experienced than me. Turns out, that’s not true at all.
I chose the App Controlled G-Spot Vibe because:
- It works perfectly as a solo toy
- It’s designed with comfort in mind (beginner-friendly shapes matter)
- And — this is the important part — it lets you share control through an app
At first, I just enjoyed it on my own. No pressure. No performance. Just getting familiar with it and understanding what felt good for me. That alone made me feel more confident.
The First Time I Gave Him Control (But I Still Felt in Control)
Before anything happened, we talked. Nothing heavy or clinical — just a “Hey, I’ve got this toy, and it has an app feature… would you want to try it together sometime?” conversation. That was it. What I loved most was that I never felt like I was handing over control of my body. I could stop it anytime. Adjust intensity. Laugh if something felt weird. Say “actually, not tonight”. Consent didn’t disappear just because technology was involved — if anything, it became clearer. The first time we tried it, we were on a video call. Nothing dramatic. Just relaxed, a bit giggly, very us. He controlled it from his phone, I stayed completely in charge of what I was comfortable with, and somehow it made the distance feel smaller.
How App-Controlled Sex Toys Actually Work (No Tech Panic Required)
If you’re imagining complicated setups or awkward instructions, don’t worry — it’s genuinely simple.
Here’s how it worked for us:
- You download the app on your phone
- The toy connects via Bluetooth
- You choose whether to use it solo or invite your partner
- Your partner can control patterns and intensity from anywhere
That’s it.
Why This Felt Like a Proper Valentine’s Gift (Not Just a Toy)
What surprised me most was how emotional it felt. This wasn’t just a thing I unwrapped and used once. It became something we shared. Something that turned an ordinary evening apart into something intimate and intentional. For long distance couples, that’s huge.
It created:
- Anticipation before we saw each other
- Playful check-ins during the week
- A feeling of “we’re still choosing each other”, even when busy
As long distance Valentine’s gifts go, this felt personal in a way chocolates or flowers never could.
Other Long Distance Valentine’s Gifts That Feel Personal
If app-controlled toys aren’t your thing (or you want to build a little Valentine’s bundle), there are plenty of options that still feel intimate. The Valentine’s Gifts for Couples collection is great for ideas that focus on connection, not pressure — from shared toys to sensual extras that make time together (or apart) feel special.
FAQ: Long Distance & App-Controlled Toys
Are app-controlled sex toys safe to use?
Yes, when used as directed and with clear consent. Start slow and communicate openly.
What if it feels awkward at first?
That’s completely normal. Awkward doesn’t mean wrong — it usually means new.
Can I still use the toy solo?
Absolutely. That’s one of the things I love most about it.
Do you need to be tech-savvy?
Not at all. If you can use apps, you’re good.
Are these good gifts for new relationships?
They can be — as long as there’s mutual curiosity and zero pressure.
Lena’s Takeaway 💕
Being in a long distance relationship doesn’t mean switching off intimacy — it just means getting a bit more creative with it. For me, discovering app-controlled toys changed how connected I felt, especially around Valentine’s. It wasn’t about being bold or fearless. It was about curiosity, trust, and finding something that worked for us. If you’re browsing long distance Valentine’s gifts, remember: the best ones aren’t about perfection — they’re about presence, even from two hours away.
App Control Vibrating Egg
